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“At the center of your being

you have the answer;

you know who you are

& you know what you want.” 

- Lao Tzu

Services

Services

I offer an eclectic approach, to look deeper into your past experiences, influences and how they positively and negatively affect your current functioning. I offer not just validation but concrete skills to use outside of sessions that will help you manage the deep work we will do in sessions.

 

I offer a safe space so you can slow down, explore and then leave with a clearer sense of what you want and need to advance your life and tap into your full potential.

 

I am a genuine “tell it like it is” clinician who will challenge and push you to look inward and address the ineffective approaches you may be taking in the relationship with yourself and others.My goal is to help you improve your communication style to deepen and strengthen your relationships. 

EMDR

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is an integrative psychotherapy approach that has been extensively researched and proven effective for the treatment of trauma.EMDR is a unique, nontraditional form of psychotherapy designed to diminish negative feelings associated with memories of traumatic events. Unlike most forms of talk therapy, EMDR focuses less on the traumatic event itself and more on the disturbing emotions and symptoms that result from the event. I use EMDR throughout treatment if patients are open, I have found that it is a way to achieve a sense of calm even if your “trauma” is not one that falls under the header of PTSD. It has shown effective in creating new neuro pathways so you may heal from old wounds. I am also trained in the EMDR and Attachment therapy that i use with children and families.

Children & Family

My heart has been with children and families since before I became a therapist. It is a privilege to be a part of the growth of a child. Discovering your sense of self through the therapeutic relationship is transforming. I work in a family systems-oriented approach. I have trained in play therapy, sand tray and EMDR attachment work to gain trust with children. Through my years of work with kids I never see the child in a vacuum as the “client”. Just like in any relationship, one always influences the other. It is vital to work with the whole family in order to heal what is happening with the identified patient. I have worked with children in school, home, facilities and in private practice. I earned a degree in elementary education which led me to see how I best interacted with children was through their feelings. Feelings are a language that we learn as we evolve. It is my honor to work with any family who is seeking help to improve the family’s communication, and resolve past or current hurts. Children have so much space to grow and learn about how to manage life. It is a critical time in their development and to seek assistance through family sessions makes a world of difference.

Couples

I am so astounded by the strength of any person coming to therapy, but when two people commit to improvement, it is  particularly tremendous. I am trained in Imago therapy, which Imago relationship therapy (IRT) aims to equip couples with the tools necessary to relate to each other in healthier ways, and reveal the emotional pathway formed in childhood that led them to their current situation. This form of therapy combines spiritual and behavioral techniques with Western psychological methodologies in order to assist couples in unveiling their unconscious components. Imago relationship therapy involves viewing a conflict between couples as merely the outcome of specific circumstances—not the cause of disharmony. By examining the conflict itself, a couple can arrive at a satisfying solution, heal, and then grow together.

Individual

There are times in life when it is necessary to self heal.  If you are struggling in your daily life with symptoms of anxiety, depression, therapy can help you to learn to love yourself and better manage the world you live in. Or maybe you are feeling lost and ready to grow and stretch. The right therapeutic relationship can guide you on the journey of finding more about yourself and the beauty that already lives with in you. Therapy is different that talking to a friend, it is a space that allows for vulnerability. Within the dialogue of a session you can find the truth and sit in the uncomfortable moments that are the birthplace of courage. In individual therapy, what you learn about yourself, is translated to how you interact with others, in home, work, social interactions. I invite you to be open to new possibilities that therapy can awaken in your life. 

Rates & Insurance

Rates & Insurance

Initial Intake $180

Each Session $150

Reduced fee services are available on a limited basis.

Payment

Cash, Check, are acceptable forms of payment. Payment is requested at the time of session.

Cancellation Policy

If you do not show up for your scheduled therapy appointment, and you have not notified us at least 24 hours in advance, you will be required to pay a fee for the missed session.

Insurance

As an in-network provider, I do accept insurance. Please check with your insurance to see what your plan will cover. 

Questions to ask your insurance company:

  • Do I have mental health insurance benefits for my family?

  • What is the reimbursement for an out of network provider?

  • How many sessions per year will my insurance cover?

  • Do I need to meet a deductible? If so, how much?

Common Questons
About Nicole

About Nicole

Nicole is a graduate of Clemson University and Rosemont College where she earned her BA and MA respectively in Education and Psychology.  Ms. Bonny has been working for over two decades with families in schools, private practice and as a Senior Therapist at Princeton House Behavioral Health; a mental health facility that treats patients who need a higher level of therapeutic care. Many of the children and adolescents she has worked with experienced intense depression, anxiety, mood dysregulation and struggled in the school setting. Nicole enjoys working with the family as a whole and uses an attachment based approach to help the family become more connected and gain healthier bonds. This approach allows children and even adults a space to become more adept at navigating the challenges of their world. 

 

While working within the family system Nicole discovered a passion for couples therapy, the roots of family work. She spent time training in Imago therapy, which teaches couples to communicate in  a style to increase their understanding of one another and the relationship they have created. It is a guidepost to finding your own self through the lens of each other. Nicole has helped many couples to improve communicating, listening, establishing healthy boundaries, and learning to handle disagreements in healthy ways.

 

Nicole has additional post graduate training in therapy modalities such as EMDR, Play Therapy, Sand Tray therapy, and attachment based parenting.  She continually  makes time to learn more about her field of work. She also enjoys spending time with her own family and children, who do make lots of mistakes and are far from picture perfect. Her humility is an asset in woking with you. She sees that humans are just that human, and if you aware enough to explore, then you are capable of immense growth regardless of how “messed up” things may now seem.

Common Questions

How can therapy help me?

A number of benefits are available from participating in therapy. Therapists can provide support, problem-solving skills, and enhanced coping strategies for issues such as depression, anxiety, relationship troubles, unresolved childhood issues, grief, stress management, body image issues and creative blocks. Many people also find that counselors can be a tremendous asset to managing personal growth, interpersonal relationships, family concerns, marriage issues, and the hassles of daily life. Therapists can provide a fresh perspective on a difficult problem or point you in the direction of a solution. The benefits you obtain from therapy depend on how well you use the process and put into practice what you learn. Some of the benefits available from therapy include:

  • Attaining a better understanding of yourself, your goals and values

  • Developing skills for improving your relationships

  • Finding resolution to the issues or concerns that led you to seek therapy

  • Learning new ways to cope with stress and anxiety

  • Managing anger, grief, depression, and other emotional pressures

  • Improving communications and listening skills

  • Changing old behavior patterns and developing new ones

  • Discovering new ways to solve problems in your family or marriage

  • Improving your self-esteem and boosting self-confidence

Do I really need therapy? I can usually handle my problems.

Everyone goes through challenging situations in life, and while you may have successfully navigated through other difficulties you've faced, there's nothing wrong with seeking out extra support when you need it. In fact, therapy is for people who have enough self-awareness to realize they need a helping hand, and that is something to be admired. You are taking responsibility by accepting where you're at in life and making

a commitment to change the situation by seeking therapy. Therapy provides long-lasting benefits and support, giving you the tools you need to avoid triggers, re-direct damaging patterns, and overcome whatever challenges you face. 

Why do people go to therapy and how do I know if it's right for me?People have many different motivations for coming to psychotherapy.   Some may be going through a major life transition (unemployment, divorce, new job, etc.), or are not handling stressful circumstances well.  Some people need assistance managing a range of other issues such as low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, spiritual conflicts and creative blocks.  Therapy can help provide some much needed encouragement and help with skills to get them through these periods.  Others may be at a point where they are ready to learn more about themselves or want to be more effective with their goals in life.   In short, people seeking psychotherapy are ready to meet the challenges in their lives and ready to make changes in their lives.

What about medication vs. psychotherapy?

It is well established that the long-term solution to mental and emotional problems and the pain they cause cannot be solved solely by medication. Instead of just treating the symptom, therapy addresses the cause of our distress and the behavior patterns that curb our progress. You can best achieve sustainable growth and a greater sense of well-being with an integrative approach to wellness.  Working with your medical doctor you can determine what's best for you, and in some cases a combination of medication and therapy is the right course of action. 

Does what we talk about in therapy remain confidential?

Confidentiality is one of the most important components between a client and psychotherapist. Successful therapy requires a high degree of trust with highly sensitive subject matter that is usually not discussed anywhere but the therapist's office.   Every therapist should provide a written copy of their confidential disclosure agreement, and you can expect that what you discuss in session will not be shared with anyone.  This is called “Informed Consent”.  Sometimes, however, you may want your therapist to share information or give an update to someone on your healthcare team (your Physician, Naturopath, Attorney), but by law your therapist cannot release this information without obtaining your written permission.

 

However, state law and professional ethics require therapists to maintain confidentiality except for the following situations:

 * Suspected past or present abuse or neglect of children, adults, and elders to the authorities, including Child Protection and law enforcement, based on information provided by the client or collateral sources.

* If the therapist has reason to suspect the client is seriously in danger of harming him/herself or has threatened to harm another person.

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Tudor Village

1924 Highway 35 Ste. 11

Wall, NJ 07719

Tel: (732) 655 - 4777

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Nicole Bonny, MA,LPC

Harmony Counseling

Establishing a relationship with a therapist can be overwhelming. I provide a safe, easy space for you to not only share your concerns, and stressors but to explore and begin a life that you can live more fully. 

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